Love Relationship

Sometimes this topic really drives us crazy. “Does he/she likes me?” If you know the answer, we might know what to do next! If you know he/she likes you, you can just ask him/her out for a date and not facing any rejections. If he/she don’t like you now, you can go for next or even make he/she loves you.

Here are the few things that might be a signal to show that they like you:

Men: When he groom himself by adjusting shirt or combing his hair, when he walk with more confidence and when he walk closely with you.

Women: When she smiles a lot, when she do lots of eye contacts with you and when she lean forwards to you when you talk.

Is it a great tip? By seeing their movement and conversation, we can know whether they are interested with us or not! I think this is not a great tip at all. We always want to know what other people are thinking. And we started to invent using movements and conversations to know what they are thinking.

We need to accept that we will never know what others are thinking. Doing this or saying that doesn’t mean they are interested. It’s just like looking you for long time doesn’t mean they are interested in you. They might just want to look at you, like to look at you, or you look like someone they know, etc. There are thousand of reasons they look at you but we only pick 1 funny possibility- “they might be interested in me!”

So, how to know whether they are interested or like us? It’s simple. Ask them! This makes life simpler instead of thinking too much and driving yourself crazy. They might give you an inauthentic answer, but that’s the only way to know what they think. Go ask them for a straight answer!

If you are shy or scared of rejections, I can give you a great method that you will never face rejections. This method is wait for people to tell you! You’ll never face failures. The chances are you might never have a relationship or you might end up with people you don’t like. Great hero or successful people live their life with glorious successes and also glorious failures. They don’t allow things that happen around them to decide their life. They create their own life.

You can create your own life and be with the people you want. Don’t try to avoid failing or rejections. Asking them straight also give you an extra bonus. It shows you are confidence and he or she like confidence people. Go and ask them straight. There are no way easier than that and as accurate as having a direct answer from them!

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When women are talking to men, men usually will listen and immediately comment on that. Do you know why?

In the books from John Gray, men get to be impatient when men are in conversation. They continuously pop up solutions to fix women’s problem. Looks like they want to spend time ending these conversation instead of being present and enjoy the togetherness.

When women are with men, these situations doesn’t mean they don’t love you or they don’t want to listen to you. They are just who they are-men. They love you and always like to be with you.

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What is love? I don’t have the truth. I get it from other places. But these distinctions of ‘Love’ gives me powerful and freedom when I love. I invite everyone to try it and see how it will inspires you.

Love is not a feeling. Love is something you create every moment for yourself and other people. 

Have a look at this example. When you feel you fall in love with your boyfriend, you equals it that you love him. When you don’t feel you love him, you equals it to not loving him. During that moment, you might think of continue pretending to love or leave him. Does this kind of love inspires you?

To me, it looks like we are controlled by definitions made by people about love. We label things that happen with the ‘love’ tags and ‘not love’ tags with definitions by others. When we love with power and freedom, we love by creating love for ourselves and others. When we want to love, we can generate it anywhere, anytime and anyone. This is the freedom and power to love.

Love is about relating with the other person.

What is the opposite of love? Hate? In this love, the opposite of love is not related.

When you hate a person, you just try very hard to cut off the relatedness you have with them. But no matter how much you hate the other person, you will notice there is a relation to them. Have you heard “The more you love, the more you hate”? Hate is just a way to resist, avoid or force yourself to believe that you still love the other person.

When you stop to hate that person and accept you still love them, you will have a lot of freedom to move on in your life and not influence by them anymore.  When you can’t love another person, you might be not willing to accept them. When you accept them, love arises. When you accept who they are, you can relate to them again. Love never disappear! Love is around you but suppress by all the expectation and anger.

Love is everything.

Love is everything? Yes.

Love is everything you touch, every person you meet, every where you go and inside you. Love fills up every space. There is abundance of love. You don’t need to trade love with people who you love, because it’s every where. Have fun and be happy about it.

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Dear Friends,

When you fall in love with someone, what should you do? Every time you see he or she, you notice your heart beating fast and you don’t know how to approach them. How to approach them and how to create a sweet relationship with them? This is not a hypnotizing technique to attract beautiful woman or handsome man to your life.

What you be learning later is about how to attract them to you. Attracting is not a way to manipulate or forcing an outcome but give them choice of freedom. So both you and she or he will be fulfilled and be happy.

The first attraction tip is giving.

When you saw someone you like or you fall in love, always start thinking of what you want to give them. Of course this does not include money or gift. The giving here are such as fun, happiness, ease, love, care and others.

When you approach people with a giving heart, you don’t feel nervous or worry about the results you will get. Lot’s of people approach people with the intention of sex, relationship, kiss or hug. This intention will cause resistance from people.

Just think of giving or creating him/her something. This create attractiveness. Have a look around people in your life. Do you notice people who always contribute to others are more attractive? They contribute care, love, happiness, ease, courage or others. So, try this on.

The Second Tip is don’t manipulate or try to hypnotize them.

We are all human beings. In the past, we often thought of manipulating people in our life by cheating, convincing or many other ways. So when we see people doing that, we can smell that. It will not attract others too. So don’t try to act or speak something to manipulate them to love or like you, be straight in conversation. People love to be with authentic people compare to people with hidden intention all over the face.

That’s it. Practice it! You’ll create wonderful relationships with anyone including friends and colleagues too.

Thank you.

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