Alex | 
06 30th, 2009| 
I am a christian and I take my marriage vows very seriously, so I don’t intend to leave my husband, especially since we have a 2-year old son. As a result, I feel hopelessly trapped in a marriage that will leave me with unending pain, anger, disappointment and overall unhappiness. We have been married for almost 4 years. He insists on keeping a job with wierd hours. He won’t finish school so he can get a better job either. He’s always said we can’t afford it. I recenly found out that’s because he’s been hiding $23,000 in debt from me (by lots of lies and deception). My pregnancy was a total off the wall surprise, but he still later accused me of getting pregnant on purpose. This is just the tip of the iceberg as far as the things that he’s done to me. I’ve tried to find christian marriage advice books, but they all seem to run under the assumption that the guys just getting on your nerves, not that he’s a lying jerk. I’m embarassed to go to my pastor. Please help me, someone.
What are some signs that a girl likes you? Their is this one girl in class and I think she likes me, not really sure.
What do girls do when they are interested in a boy, besides talking to him?
I’m a romantic girl. To show a guy that I’m really interested in him on a 2nd date, what do I give him? Is flowers acceptable? Is a bottle of wine too boring? Obviously nothing sexy or full-on at this point… 
Need Help on Marriage advice ?
It can be something bought, or homemade… or even just an idea for a date. I just want to surprise him.
Ok i just bought my girlfriend a $60,000 ring. I em going to purpose to her this friday at her favorite restaurant. There is only one problem she has lots of friends, and family. While i have only 3 friends. I em going to feel weird like a loser in front of everybody!.
What should i do?
We are both 21.
How do you reach the conclusion that she is interested in you.?
I’d like to give him something memorable.He’s not into jewelry.
I’m already getting him a couple of practical gifts like an ipod and a bus pass but I wanted something else kinda small that is sentimental but doesn’t cost a lot since I’m already spending a lot of the other 2. Were both in our early 20’s and love music if that helps.
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now. She will be coming to my house for Valentine’s Day. I already have an idea of what I’m going to do (cook pasta, have flowers, make desert, romantic whirlpool bath for two and a full body massage for her). But what I need help with is coming up with a sexy gift for her. Recently she made me a small photo album with some sexy pictures of her (classy sexy…not exactly ‘naughty’). So now I want to return the favor but need an idea! Can you help me out??
Why or why not?
My husband has an adult son from his previous marriage.
When we first got married, the adult son asked to live with us in our new house. My husband wanted that, so I agreed.
Soon, we had disagreements/miscommunications about household expectations. While discussing this with me, my husband said to me, “Blood is thicker than marriage licenses.”
I’ve never forgotten that. It hurt me deeply. I was NOT asking him to choose between us.
Can you shed some light on this for me? Advice? What’s your take on it?
ok. so lets begin.
….there was a boy who liked a girl. the boy flirted w/the girl…the girl felt he enjoyed her…so the girl then began to like the boy back…both never said the words “i like you” but both used flirtation as there sign language to speak it….the boy and the girls time was almost at end as school was almost out…boy never asked girl out….so the girl decided to push forward and ask boy out…boy agreed….
later the boy has less time to hang out…but still agrees to
….girl holds on and waits….girl begins to feel boy is not interested….girl then looses interest in boy…..girl then leaves boy note, asking if boy cares still or not…..boy makes apology and tells girl he still wants to hang out…..girl then waits….
what will become of girl and boy?…..will boy call as he says….or will boy make girl wait more….thus causing girl to give up on boy….and move on…..
how can girl make boy make more effort? how can girl make boy in girls spot??
Married 16 years. I am ready for separation but my husband suggested counseling. I agreed and we have our first appointment today. what to expect and does it really work?
I am a newlywed and I need some marriage advice, please anything you have to say will be appreciatied.
I am married to a man’s man but he does enjoy a hugly romantic gift. We live in Indiana so if we fly or drive somewhere it needs to be fairly close.
also, shes not really a jewelry person. she doesnt NOT like jewelry, but she never wears it. i got her a necklace for her birthday and she only wore it for a little bit or on special occasions and stuff like that. im planning on taking her to a nice restaurant downtown and then going on one of those carriage ride things because she has mentioned a few times a couple months ago that she would looove to do one of those rides. but i dont know what to get her for her actual gift. i have like 3 weeks. please give me some ideas!
I like a teenage Pisces boy at school. At the start, I began to notice him a bit more because he showed signs of interest in me. He was very shy and had trouble looking me in the eye. He was very sweet and gentle to me. Still is.
On the other hand, I always hear stories of him degrading girls and making piggish remarks to their faces. I believe it’s all an act, but if it is, he’s never acted that way with me. From everything I hear about him, it sure doesn’t seem like the same guy I deal with. He looks at me a lot, in a cute & shy way, and I’m often the first to speak to him although we have never spoken much to each other. He’s interesting, and I’ve developed interest. He waves and smiles at me sometimes too. What do you think? Is he into me? Consider his star sign as Pisces if you’d like. I’m a Scorpio. What do YOU think the deal is? Are we some mystical result of two signs meaning to be together? lol. Well, him and I seem to communicate with our eyes.
We just broke off a long distance thing. I’m her partner for her sweet sixteen, and we both still care alot bout each other. This is my time to shine help me!!!!
It has to be really good, i’ll have like 3 hours until the guy shes thinking bout hooking up wit gets there. i’ll be at her house 4 like an hour wit her. even nice things to say will help.
My wife is 19 I am 22 and we have a 9 week old and we want to split 50 50 custody no child support owed to the other. We havent filed for divorce yet my wife wont give me a chance to do counseling, when we file for divorce given the circumstances may he make us try to work it? In massachusetts.
Isn’t this like going to a 350 pounder for diet advice?
None of them have any wives or successful relationships with women, so why don’t they just admit they are not the best person to come to for this advice. How can they possibly expect to have any moral authority on how all the dynamics of a marriage relationship works?
So there is this girl I like (I’m 19, she’s 20) and her birthday is coming up soon. I’d like to get her something for her birthday but not sure what. I kinda want it to be “suggestive” that I like her. What are some romantic/non-romantic ideas?
Should we say what is on our mind or guard our words more carefully because of where we are and who we are with? What advice is the counselor most likely to give on this subject?
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