Relationship Advice

my hubby and I really need counseling. He is resistant, but made the phone call for an appointment. Just wondering if anyone felt like it really saved their marriage.

I’m going to try and make this short…….I’m 30 years old and never been pregnant, no miscarriages or abortions. I’m on my second marriage my ex has children and my current hubby does also. I finally decided to go to a reproductive specialist, my appointment is in three weeks. I’ve been reading a lot of the forums and the vast majority of some sort of AF issue, which isn’t my case. I come on each and every month and it’s been this way since I was 9 or 10. I’m wondering if it’s possible that I can have blocked falliopian tubes? I’m just not sure what could be causing this. I’m a little nervous, because I’m scared of what the doctor might say. Can anyone give me any advice such as; have you ever had blocked tubes, what caused them to be blocked? What’s the procedure to unblock them? Is it painful.
Also Is it normal to have never been pregnant before? most stories I here about women have had miscarriages, or abortions or something but, I don’t know I have so many questions.
Thx

my boyfriend and I are in are early 20’s, we have been dating for almost 2 months … he jokes about marriage a lot and once while we were on the couch said “so when are we getting married” he laughed and i laughed and made a wierd face …then he said ” i only said that cause i was thinking about my cousins wedding and it reminded me” …” he also said ” i want a girl first and then we can have a boy”
is he joking or serious …this has happened about 2 other times

69 Things to do in Wal-Mart
* Take shopping carts for the express purpose of filling them and stranding them at strategic locations.
* Ride those little electronic cars at the front of the store.
* Set all the alarm clocks to go off at ten minute intervals throughout the day.
* Start playing football — see how many people you can get to join in.
* Run up to an employee (preferably a male) while squeezing your legs together and yell, ”I need some tampons!!”
* Try on bras over top of your clothes.
* Make a trail of orange juice on the ground, leading to the restrooms.
* While walking around the store, sing in your loudest voice possible ”Sex and Candy”
* Walk up to an employee and tell him in an official tone, ”I think we’ve got a Code 3 in Housewares,” and see what happens.
* Tune all the radios to a polka station, then turn them all off and turn the volumes to ”10.”
* Play with the automatic doors.
* Walk up to complete strangers and say, ”Hi! I haven’t seen you in so long!…” etc. See if they play along to avoid embarrassment.
* While walking through the clothing department, ask yourself loud enough for all to hear, ”Who BUYS this ****, anyway?”
* Repeat Number 14 in the jewelry department.
* Put pairs of women’s panties on your head and walk around the store casually.
* Leave small sacrifices or gifts in the hands of the mannequins.
*. Play soccer with a group of friends, using the entire store as your playing field.
* As the cashier runs your purchases over the scanner, look mesmerized and say, ”Wow. Magic!”
* Put M&M’s on layaway.
* Move ”Caution: Wet Floor” signs to carpeted areas.
* Set up a tent in the camping department; tell others you’ll only invite them in if they bring pillows from Bed and Bath.
* Contaminate the entire auto department by sampling all the spray air fresheners.
* Nonchalantly ”test” the brushes and combs in Cosmetics.
* Drape a blanket around your shoulders and run around saying,”…I’m Batman. Come, Robin — to the Batcave!”
* TP as much of the store as possible.
* Randomly throw things over into neighboring aisles.
* Play with the calculators so that they all spell ”hello” upside down. (01134)
* When someone asks if you need help, begin to cry and ask, ”Why won’t you people just leave me alone?”
* When two or three people are walking ahead of you, run between them, yelling, ”Red Rover!”
* Look right into the security camera, and use it as a mirror while you pick your nose.
* Take up an entire aisle in Toys by setting up a full-scale battlefield with G.I. Joes vs. the X-Men.
* Take bets on the battle described above.
* Set up another battlefield with G.I. Joes vs. Barbie. (Red lipstick might give an interesting effect…)
* While handling guns in the hunting department, suddenly ask the clerk if he knows where the anti-depressants are. Act as spastic as possible.
* While no one’s watching, quickly switch the men’s and women’s signs on the doors of the restrooms.
* Dart around suspiciously while humming the theme from ”Mission: Impossible.’
* Attempt to fit into very large gym bags.
* Attempt to fit others into very large gym bags.
* Fill an entire cart with boxes of condoms, and watch everyone’s jaws drop when you attempt to buy them.
* Set up a ”Valet Parking” sign in front of the store.
* Two words: ”Marco Polo.’
* Leave Cheerios in Lawn and Garden, pillows in the pet food aisle, etc.
* ”Re-alphabetize” the CDs in Electronics.
* In the auto department, practice your ”Madonna” look with various funnels. * Hide in the clothing racks and when people browse through, say things like ”the fat man walks alone,” and scare them into believing that the clothes are talking to them.
* While walking around alone, pretend someone is with you and get into a very serious conversation. Exp: The person is breaking up with you and you begin crying ”How could you do this to me? I thought you loved me! I knew there was another girl, but I thought I had won.” Then act as though you are being beaten and fall onto the ground screaming and having convulsions.
* When an announcement comes over the loudspeaker, assume the fetal position and scream, ”No, no! It’s those voices again!”
* Go to an empty checkout stand and try to check people out.
* Drag a lounge chair on display over to the magazines and relax.If the store has a food court, buy a soft drink; explain that you don’t get out much, and ask if they can put a little umbrella in it.
* Get a stuffed animal, go to the front of the store and begin stroking it lovingly, saying ”Good girl, good Bessie.”
* Go over to the shoe department and try on every pair of shoes, not putting one pair back. Take the paper from the boxes and throw it in various aisles.
* When someone steps away from their cart to look at something, quickly make off with it without saying a word.
* Follow people through the aisles, always staying about five feet away. Continue to do this until they leave the department.
* Ask other customers if they have any Grey Poupon.
* Test the fishing rods and see what you can ”catch” from the other aisles.
* In the makeup department, spray yourself with every perfume there is, then walk up to a boy who is with a girl and start flirting with him as ditisily as possible: ”Hi! (giggle) What’s your sign? (giggle).” When the boy shows no interest, start hitting on the girl the exact same way. ”Hi! (giggle) What’s your sign? (giggle).”
* Hold indoor shopping cart races.
* Re-dress the mannequins as you see fit.
* When there are people behind you, walk REALLY SLOW, especially through narrow aisles. * Relax in the patio furniture until you get kicked out.
* Challenge other customers to duels with tubes of gift wrap. * Pay off layaways fifty cents at a time.
* Say things like, ”Would you be so kind as to direct me to your Twinkies?”
* Make up nonsense products and ask newly hired employees if there are any in stock, i.e., ”Do you have any Shnerples here?”
* Ride a display bicycle through the store — claim you’re taking it for a ”test drive.”
* Leave cryptic messages on the typewriters.
* Get boxes of condoms and randomly slip them into peoples’ carts when they aren’t paying attention.

It’s my boyfriend’s 31st birthday soon.I want to get him a great gift, but I’m so bad at coming up with ideas. I thought a weekend away might be good. Somewhere on a lake in the country since we live in the city and it drives him crazy and he loves getting away and fishing, but I want to do something more too. Anyone have any birthday present ideas??? I want it to be a very romantic birthday. What’s something really romantic that someone has done for you? or that you have always wanted someone to do?

this is in Corpus Christi

Please can you help with advise.
Would this marriage be valid islamically in the eyes of Allah?
A marriage at the masjid between two muslims, one male and one female with the imam conducting the ceremony.
Both parties entering the marriage volentarily although the male muslim is still married to his first non muslim wife, who he has been seperated from for a period of one year, but is not yet divorced from.
The first wife has not lived with her husband for one year but is unaware of the second marriage.
The husband intends to divorce the first wife after the second marriage ceremony.
The imam would be representing the second wife acting as her wali, as a muslim revert without a muslim father to represent her.
Nikah is present and many witnesses and guests to attend.
Is the marriage valid islamically without permission from the first wife?
Many conflicting answers given.

i want to give someone a really nice romantic gift but he is soo far aways on the other side of the world what can i send him any ideas thanks ^_^

I want to give my boyfriend a romantic gift as part of his Christmas present. I want to make a list of things that I love about him and special places and things we have done together. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can put this all together? Like, what I can write them on and how to give them (like writing the reasons on hershey kisses and putting them in a big glass jar)

Does anyone know of where to look for low cost marriage counseling in the Washington state area? Has anyone been to one and know what to expect? Is it weird to want to see a counselor after only being married for 6 months? I just think the way we were raised was so completely different, that it is really effecting our relationship.
Any help is appreciated!

My birthday was just a little while ago and my best guy friend made me a t-shirt of all the funny times of this year. It is obvious he didn’t spend a lot of money on the gift, so neither will I for him. His birthday is coming up soon, and I don’t know what to get him. The most I will pay is around $5, or I can try to make him something creative too. I just have no ideas of what to buy him or make him. Make it something that teenagers will like. We are friends, and nothing more, so nothing romantic, pervy, gross, or awkward. Just creative and funny… Any ideas? HELP!

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My husband is driving me crazy. There is nothing he is doing that is intentionally wrong or mean. He’s a very nice guy. He just says and does things that drive me absolutely crazy, make no sense to me, and at times even seem really stupid. Most people tell me that I’m being over critical and hypersensetive but I disagree. I can’t bring myself to leave him. We have no kids and are both turning 30. Help???? Any advice?

My husbands birthday is soon. and I want something romantic yet not expensive.. Any ideas?
Also gift ideas, he likes anime, action movies, fishing, pocket knifes..
I need very romantic ideas that I could do..please help..its his first birthday together for us.. we got marrie in sept… .we married soon..but it’s working great..
Thanks for the help…

is this a doomed marriage? i told my husband we needed counseling if we were going to stay married and he said “who will pay for it”

with marriage id have to say “dont go to bed angry” but with parenting….im not in that boat yet so no ones gave me any good advice

Hello, i have been dating a guy for about one week on sunday. sunday is also his birthday. and i have no idea what to get him. he is like 6 ft 2in and brown hair brown eyes amazing drummer wheres shirts with band names on them and stuff loves to eat really sweet and romantic but i have not idea what to get him suggestions would be awesome thank you

My Udbi’s bday is about to come within a couple of months. I like 2 present something which is lovable, romantic & unexpected gift. And how can I make him happy on that day? It should memorable.Plz give me some idea.

If I am marrying someone from Tanzania and I have a felony, will it prevent him from obtaining his u.s. citizenship in the future?

I already have the romantic dinner, the homemade card, and well of course the romantic night in the bedroom, but other than that I want to give him an actual present. Nothing too expensive, and no gift cards. He is turning 25 and we just got married. Any ideas would be helpful. Let me know what you think…

My husband and i are going threw a bad spot in our marriage. we Don’t want to get a Divorice. His X has startd working where he teaches and he resently talked to her and has feelings for her nothin has happe and he told me and says he still oves me and wants us to stay together…. please tell me if you have went threw this and if you went to see someone and did i help?

The answer here is usually sex, but sex never seems to permanantly fix anything. You have to figure out what the focal point in your marraige is and add a little fuel to it.

hi x
me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years in december and i honestly dont no what to buy him for our anniversary lol. he has just recently passed his driving lience and i thought abut buying him an expensive sat nav, even though i know he will love it, i think its abit impersonal and i want to buy something really meaning ful and romantic, around £100, any ideas?
Thankyou x i really appreciate it x

Did it work for you??
What sign is/was your partner?

I’m snooping around for ways to celebrate a friends birthday. I know he wouldn’t like a party or a big group of friends, so it should be fairly quiet, just the two of us.
The ideas -can- be sorta romantic, but we’re not dating or physically intimate so things like rose petals and candles are inappropriate.
Any ideas?
Gift suggestions are also appreciated, but I think I might just bake him a couple things.