Alex | 
01 31st, 2010| 
So my husband was on website looking at other women, I asked him not to go on the site anymore but he still did. So one day after coming home, I see he was on the site again, because everything you click remains purple, so I decide to give him a taste of his own medicine. I went on the site and looked under women looking for men, I checked out a lot of pics, and did not erase the computer history. I than went about my day. A few days later he must of logged on to the site, browsing again, and saw I was on there…lol. Of course he got mad, even though he says he is not mad, he keeps ignoring me. I explained the whole motive to him but yet he is still ignoring me, we have been married for ten years, I love him with all my heart, we have 2 kids, I can’t talk to my friends about it because they are man bashers. I really just want to make up and not fight anymore, but he is still ignoring me, he won’t talk to me, he won’t answer my calls. I need advice
I have no ideas for a christmas gift for my husband. None whatsoever. Here’s a little bio of him. lol
He’s currently in the military. He’s airforce and hasn’t gone oversea’s yet. He’s done basic training, but he’s just in the learning process now. His field his AVS. He’s loving it so far.
He loves tools. (I just recently got him a dewalt drill). He loves movies. He’s into country music. He is a romantic too.
I jsut don’t know what to get him. Any cute, romantic ideas? Or anything? Help a sista out here! lol
I respect the church option; i would just like to get a therapist-type opinion.
I’ve been talking to this guy recently and we share a lot of common interests and have good conversations and stuff. He’s a really smart guy and he’s definitely not one to judge based on appearances (thank goodness). I like him, but I’m not really experienced in the boy department, so I need to know what this means: we were talking online today and he said “i just realized i don’t have your number. mine’s (he gave me his number), whats yours?”
is this a sign of interest or is it just like “hey you’re a cool person let’s be friends”?
again, I don’t want to sound immature asking this question. I just want to know what the deal is.
well…. im not supposed to have a boyfriend… parents dont let me date… so i cant really take him someplace romantic.
so whats some reeeally great ideas to give my boyfriend?
we are in absolute love with eachother
& we hope to get married some day
its going to be our first valentines and i need an idea he’ll love sooo much
[[[[[ thank you! ]]]]]
I have no ideas for a christmas gift for my husband. None whatsoever. Here’s a little bio of him. lol
He’s currently in the military. He’s airforce and hasn’t gone oversea’s yet. He’s done basic training, but he’s just in the learning process now. His field his AVS. He’s loving it so far.
He loves tools. (I just recently got him a dewalt drill). He loves movies. He’s into country music. He is a romantic too.
I jsut don’t know what to get him. Any cute, romantic ideas? Or anything? Help a sista out here! lol
you must go counselling TOGETHER
that’s the whole point
I am a 17 yr old punjabi girl who lives in the US and i really love this guy so much to death and we have been together for more then a yr and i want to marry him and he wants to marry me but the problem is he is not the same caste as me. I am rajput and he is a Chumar and my parents probably wont allow us to get married bc of our caste differences. I don’t know what to do so if anyone has any advice i would kindly appreciate it. I also wanted to now if caste should matter at all in love or not? and does the caste system still run in india or not still today?
I am wanting to do something really romantic and silly. Cheesy is fine, too.
yes and you call him/her and set up an appt.. *S*
ive been with my husband for 4 years married 2 years outta those 4. anyway a year ago my mother in law got in the middle of a big fight we had.she took his side and basically told me off that i was no good for him, he was there as she was telling me all the nasty things and never stood up for me.i eventually forgave her, but i still have that on my mind.everything she does just buggs me. i dont like being around her at all but i still try to make the best of it.everytime we fight i bring that up to my husband how he just let her tell me off without defending me. i get so angry just thinking about it.my son goes over to her house often and i feel guilty because i talk crap about her with my husband and i know im hurting him by doing this.i just need advice to get over what she said to me, i love my husband and i know i cant change my mother in law.
I am a high schooler, and this girl that I like is part of my school.
She and I are pretty good friends, and we like to hang out on occasions.
However, I feel more for her. We decided one day to go watch The Dark Knight, since she hadn’t seen it yet, and we decided to go to her house to watch it. So, I went to her house, met her parents, and we went down to the basement and watched it. We sat on seperate couches, probably not deliberately, since I sat down first and she sat down second. We did not have any physical contact whatsoever while watching the movie.
Later, she invites me to go see another movie, but instead we changed plans and went to Dave and Busters on New Years Eve. We played arcades there for a while, then went back to my house and she met my parents and family. We watched Horton Hears a Who, played board games, and other stuff. Then, we went and had dinner at her house with her family and we did other games and stuff there.
I invited her to Homecoming, and she said yes. There, we danced about 5-6 times, slow-dancing, and we would always look into each other’s eyes every so often. Eventually, we started singing the song to each other, but everyone else was too, so I don’t know if that was a sign or not.
She likes to make me laugh, I like to make her laugh, we enjoy each other’s company and we definitely hang out outside of school. As far as I know, she has not invited any other guys to hang out outside of school other than me. She still flirts with other guys or just acts nice to them, I don’t know which. But, it always seems like, despite all these things that we do together outside school, she seems to not be as interested in me during school or anything.
I told her my feelings, and she said she felt something there too, but that she wanted to take it very slow, and that we’re just good friends for now. But I really don’t know how to approach the situation or what to do about it. It seems like we like each other and that we’re even dating whenever we’re outside of school. We’ve done all the things that “exclusive couples” do. We’ve met each other’s parents, and we’ve been to each other’s houses, and I drive her to our many experiences together.
On top of this, with her acting as friends on occasion and as more on occasion, she’s always the one that invites me to all these get togethers outside of school, so my question is, would a girl really invite a boy to go somewhere outside of school multiple times if she didn’t really have any feelings for him? And what does this all mean?
The help would be greatly appreciated.
I need some things they can do together, fun and romantic
thanks
For those that are / were married how much time did you give marriage counseling before you came to the decision that the marriage was salvageable or not?
We’ve been going to counseling weekly for the past 10 weeks. And I haven’t noticed any difference in either of us at all.
Please no “go to counseling until it works” or “for better or worse”. I’d like real numbers from people who actually went through this. Thanks!
I just posted the question asking if I need professional help so if I do decide to seek counseling where can we go to that is free..? Is there a place on base that we can go to… We are stationed at McChord AFB,WA…. Thanks for any advice….
I am 27 and in a rocky marriage. We have been married for almost 5 years, together for 10 years. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. We don’t fight bad alot, but do disagree and have many different interests/values in life. My husband is very hard to talk to, and often takes me for granted. He isn’t heartless, he just doesn’t talk to me much. He is a great father. For about the past year, I have not been happy. I see a psychiatrist and am on depression meds. I am torn what to do. We have tried to work this out over and over. My main concern of course is our daughter and what it would do to her if we split up. But yet, if i am not happy that isn’t good for her either right? I have thought about a separation to sort it all out and maybe it would help decide. About the only person I can stay with around my job is my brother-in-law. He isn’t close with my husband and offered me to stay at his apt. I can’t get my own place because I would still have to help pay for our house.
I am a high schooler, and this girl that I like is part of my school.
She and I are pretty good friends, and we like to hang out on occasions.
However, I feel more for her. We decided one day to go watch The Dark Knight, since she hadn’t seen it yet, and we decided to go to her house to watch it. So, I went to her house, met her parents, and we went down to the basement and watched it. We sat on seperate couches, probably not deliberately, since I sat down first and she sat down second. We did not have any physical contact whatsoever while watching the movie.
Later, she invites me to go see another movie, but instead we changed plans and went to Dave and Busters on New Years Eve. We played arcades there for a while, then went back to my house and she met my parents and family. We watched Horton Hears a Who, played board games, and other stuff. Then, we went and had dinner at her house with her family and we did other games and stuff there.
I invited her to Homecoming, and she said yes. There, we danced about 5-6 times, slow-dancing, and we would always look into each other’s eyes every so often. Eventually, we started singing the song to each other, but everyone else was too, so I don’t know if that was a sign or not.
She likes to make me laugh, I like to make her laugh, we enjoy each other’s company and we definitely hang out outside of school. As far as I know, she has not invited any other guys to hang out outside of school other than me. She still flirts with other guys or just acts nice to them, I don’t know which. But, it always seems like, despite all these things that we do together outside school, she seems to not be as interested in me during school or anything.
I told her my feelings, and she said she felt something there too, but that she wanted to take it very slow, and that we’re just good friends for now. But I really don’t know how to approach the situation or what to do about it. It seems like we like each other and that we’re even dating whenever we’re outside of school. We’ve done all the things that “exclusive couples” do. We’ve met each other’s parents, and we’ve been to each other’s houses, and I drive her to our many experiences together.
On top of this, with her acting as friends on occasion and as more on occasion, she’s always the one that invites me to all these get togethers outside of school, so my question is, would a girl really invite a boy to go somewhere outside of school multiple times if she didn’t really have any feelings for him? And what does this all mean?
The help would be greatly appreciated.
judge lets you know if he grants it or not?
I need some interesting romantic ideas for my finance’. He’s super special and the most wonderful man on the face of the earth. I used to send him cards in the mail, leave sticky notes all over his house, love notes in his lunch, and I’ve even made several gifts (key to my heart poem and I typed 90 reasons “I LOVE YOU” and 10 special memories, cut each apart and mixed them into a huge vase of Hershey Hugs and Kisses!)
We’ve both been super busy (my mom with back surgery on March 23 and his mom was in a car accident on April 5th) He is a dispatcher at a sheriff’s dept. and I’m a full-time student. I want to let him know how special he is to me and how much I love him……
Please help with providing me some interesting and unique ideas to show my love!!!
Thanks all in advance~ I’m sure I’ll get lots of good ideas.
Your choices are…..
A. Seek marriage counseling
B. Install a bigger doggie-door
or
C. Fly to DC on the weekends and have a wild fling with someone who wants you… bad
My husband has started being hateful with everybody in the past 4 or 5 months. The kids cant say or do anything unless he yells at them to set down or shut up. He cusses and yells at other drivers. He tells me all the time about telling people off at his work. He gets mad at me about the schedule I have to work. I no longer look forward to spending time with him and have been thinking about leaving. I know that every relationship has problems, but I won’t live a life of bickering and arguing all the time as I have been down that road most of my life and don’t see how anyone wants to live like that. During the last few months I have started resenting the fact that he only started helping around the house and it’s only to wash a few clothes or load the dishwasher. He also cooks for him and the kids. I appreciate what little he does do but everything else is left for me to do on my 2 days off. I’m thinking of leaving if his attitude doesn’t change. Am I just overreacting? And is it normal to sometimes feel like something is missing in a long marriage? We’ve been married 8 yrs.
I am a high schooler, and this girl that I like is part of my school.
She and I are pretty good friends, and we like to hang out on occasions.
However, I feel more for her. We decided one day to go watch The Dark Knight, since she hadn’t seen it yet, and we decided to go to her house to watch it. So, I went to her house, met her parents, and we went down to the basement and watched it. We sat on seperate couches, probably not deliberately, since I sat down first and she sat down second. We did not have any physical contact whatsoever while watching the movie.
Later, she invites me to go see another movie, but instead we changed plans and went to Dave and Busters on New Years Eve. We played arcades there for a while, then went back to my house and she met my parents and family. We watched Horton Hears a Who, played board games, and other stuff. Then, we went and had dinner at her house with her family and we did other games and stuff there.
I invited her to Homecoming, and she said yes. There, we danced about 5-6 times, slow-dancing, and we would always look into each other’s eyes every so often. Eventually, we started singing the song to each other, but everyone else was too, so I don’t know if that was a sign or not.
She likes to make me laugh, I like to make her laugh, we enjoy each other’s company and we definitely hang out outside of school. As far as I know, she has not invited any other guys to hang out outside of school other than me. She still flirts with other guys or just acts nice to them, I don’t know which. But, it always seems like, despite all these things that we do together outside school, she seems to not be as interested in me during school or anything.
I told her my feelings, and she said she felt something there too, but that she wanted to take it very slow, and that we’re just good friends for now. But I really don’t know how to approach the situation or what to do about it. It seems like we like each other and that we’re even dating whenever we’re outside of school. We’ve done all the things that “exclusive couples” do. We’ve met each other’s parents, and we’ve been to each other’s houses, and I drive her to our many experiences together.
On top of this, with her acting as friends on occasion and as more on occasion, she’s always the one that invites me to all these get togethers outside of school, so my question is, would a girl really invite a boy to go somewhere outside of school multiple times if she didn’t really have any feelings for him? And what does this all mean?
The help would be greatly appreciated.
I never know what to get my husband for v-day. He does not really eat candy we are in our early 30’s with two kids. Does anyone know any diffrent or romantic gifts or ideas I can do for v-day that does not cost allot of muney because I am on a budge. Any help would be great! Thanks in advance and
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY
I am celebrating my 2 year anniversary with my boyfriend. I have already gotten him a few gifts. I plan to take him out to dinner. I was also thinking of driving him around, blindfolded, and take him to special spots and locations of ours. Can anyone think of anything else that would really make the day special? Something unique and romantic. I have been racking my brain to come up with really nothing. I am not very creative so please help.
while my husband and i aren’t physical with our arguments - we could use some counseling. you want the truth? i don’t want to go to counseling because i am afraid of who i am. i’m afraid that i’ll find out that i won’t like me, and be stuck with those thoughts of me forever. while that really does sound crazy, it’s the truth. i don’t wanna see me. i know that it would be helpful to me if i did go - and that i can be strong enough to do it, but it take balls…and mine are still growing.
i’ll get there, just hopefully before it’s too late.