Relationship Advice

He asks?

I want to give him something romantic and not so much material as thoughtful. I already wrote him a letter telling him how much I love him and everything, but I want something else. Any romantic ideas?

Can I get my interest in him sparked again/ We have had a lot of issues in our early marriage regarding his forsaking my needs to lease others, and not shall I say repsecting privacy in marriage, but nothing too serious I guess like having affairs. But still i have completely lost interest in having sex with him. I still do, to please him but get nothing from it really. someone said it might be post partum depression, but my baby is now 2 years old and I have a sex drive but don;t fancy him. what can I do?

i want to give my husband an ever lating experience please suggest everything regarding - place, gift, romantic ideas, sex, basically a complete day / night schedule.
i want to make that day unforgetable for both of us………………………………..…
Please take it seriously as it is going to be most important day of my life as our’s is an arranged married and thefirst day of our married life we both were not that comfortable with each other or u can say thehesitation was there……………. i hope u will understand

Hi, I want to give a wedding gift to a friend and his wife.. I want to make a gift hamper with stuff like scented candles, a lingerie, massage oil etc etc.. I don’t know the girl well so I don’t want to go overboard .. Something romantic and sexy, but not erotic.. any suggestions on what to add to the gift hamper?

ok, st valentines is coming up and its our first together… i was thinking about cooking a dinner… but i want to get him a gift either buy or make, any cool ideas??? xx

There is this boy in my school and i really really like him and he flirts with me but i have heard that he fancies this other girl but i dont think he does but he shows signs that he is interested in me but i really want to to get with him and stuff but i dont really talk to him an stuff. But im a bit shy to talk to him. Please can someone give me really good advice on how to get this boy cuz i really like him….. baring in mind i dont know if he likes me but he flirts ??? but please help!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks!!

Just a few questions about gift giving in relationships… (all are opinion based)
1) What is the best gift to give to your significant other (not married) on an “anniversary” (such as dating for a year or two, or even 6 months) and Why?
2) Would you prefer a gift with a large price tag to one that is sentimental and cheap?
3) What are the gifts you should give on anniversaries when you are married? (China, Silver, Gold) and what years do they correspond with?
4) When in a relationship that is failing would you give the same type of gift as if you were in the worlds best relationship?
5) What is a romantic gift that isn’t over used?
6) Do women prefer classic gifts such as Flowers, Chocolates, and Teddy bears, or creative gifts such as … personalized perfume? (Perfume was just an example; feel free to list other gift ideas)
7) What gifts do men like to receive?
Does receiving only a card really symbolize a cheap significant other?
Thanks for reading!

What do i get my boyfriend for Valentines day? or what do i do, hes honestly not the super romantic type, at all, so give me ideas =)

I need to gift something really special and romantic without being cheap or cliched. I have run out of ideas (and gifts!).
Please help

Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. Both his feet will point towards you if he’s comfortable with you, but if he’s uncomfortable with you, one foot will be pointing at you and the other will be pointing towards an exit.
Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he’s around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.
His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes. If you’re around him for a long time, it could be easier to pick up on gradually.
Hint: If you like him, your pupils may be dilated. Check a mirror, then see if his eyes are similar.
When a guy likes you he will try and make himself seem impressive to you
“Listen to what he’s saying”. If he likes you, and he’s nervous, he’ll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won’t move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he’s good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.
Notice the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply will not tease you.
Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
Smile - a big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back to avoid blushing.
Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? Maybe when they dare him in games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “ha ha, nice, [ name here ]” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “ha ha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
He’ll flirt with other girls to get your attention- If a guy is really into you he will want to make you jealous. So, he will most likely flirt with other girls in front of you. It gives them a chance to see your reaction. It helps them know if you really do like them or not. But guys flirting with other girls in front of you doesn’t always mean they like you. They actually might be into that girl. The way you can tell t

Something unique, romantic and hip!

I’ve been married to my husband for 4 1/2 years. From about after our first year of marriage to our 3 1/2 years of being married we always would fight. We never got along and he would be so rude to me when he talked to me. The ONLY time he would EVER be nice is when he wanted to get a piece. I dont know what to do cause now I’m questioning if I even want to be married anymore. He’s been fine since last july but that is because he has been gone over seas since then so that is the only reason we are doing better now. But I know how he is and he says he’ll change his ways but honestly believe he wont and I dont know what to do.

ok so my boyfriends birthday is this monday and i only have $300 what is something cheap but romantic that i can do for him without it going over my budget?

Ok my girlfriend and i r both 16 yrs old…. weve been datin for 7 months, and shes really special to me… ive never really gotten her any special gifts, besides a necklace with a small broken heart charm, n i only gave her 1 half of the charm & said she would have a piece of my heart…. but otherwise no gifts, weve been to homecoming together…. she loves playin basketball and is a really great christian girl…. im thinkn about gettin her the dvd = Love & Basketball, but i need a more expensive gift with it, or something romantic…… basically i need some BIG HELP
THANKS!

Some friends of ours are getting married and we thought to get them a sort of gift basket for their wedding. They are leaving on a “pre-honeymoon” to an NFL football game and they will be driving. The drive is about 8 hours. Any ideas on good things to include in the gift basket-
We were thinking music that they can listen to on the drive
map of interesting things to do where they are going
Any other ideas or sport ideas????
Please don’t put done any sexual answers please, this is a serious gift. I know it is the honeymoon, so something romantic and tasteful would be good.
Thank you

What do you think would be better for my significant other and I? Marriage counseling at our church or seeing someone outside of our church for counseling? Please tell me your reason to your answers too. Thank you so much!

I am getting married in October this is the 2nd marriage for me and my fiance. He has 2 daughters from his previous and I don’t have any. Neither of us had a “real” wedding last time and we really want to this time. Is there anything that I shouldn’t do this time considering it is our 2nd? I have never got to plan a wedding so I am totally new at this and with it being the 2nd for both of us I am completely confused as to what is the “right” thing to do. I am open to any suggestions ya’ll may have for me. I just want to make sure it is nice but I don’t want to offend anyone either. HELP!!!

See, I’m a taurus girl with some issue: I kinda like talking to this Sagittarius boy and I think i’m falling for him but we don’t talk as much as we use to and I think I don’t feel sexy or interesting anymore and I went to the school nurse and he was there, he smiled I wink and one of my friend was sick and I wanted to talk to him but nothing happen. So what’s wrong with me or my sign right now?

I’m planning a romantic weekend. We’re staying at a bed and breakfast and going to a couple wineries. I was thinking of giving a small gift at the start of the vacation. Just a small momento, of sorts - nothing extravegent. Sometime to use on the vacation and enjoy. Does anybody have any ideas of what I could give? I want it to help build the excitement for the weekend as we’re leaving on the trip.

here is the thing,,my boyfriend is freakin’ sweet ,,,n he is sooooooooooooooo romantic,,,i adore that abt him,,,
but the problem lies in me ,,,even though hes not askin for anything in return,,,but PLZ how couldnt i ,,,!! yes i do say romantic words from time to time,,,but its just doesnt feel like enough,,,so im looking for sth reallly romantic,,,various ideas,,,during a date,,,or on a special occasions,,or even just through the phone,,,u knw make them special,,,so i tought u guys..might help me ,,to spice the whole thing alil lol,,,n btw what kinda gifts guys like mostly ???

I would like to know what are some good gift ideas for my boyfriend since he is a father. he is into u2 and spiderman. or what are some romantic things that we can do on that day? we live in chicago

I have been married for two years. I love my husband very much. He has been physically abusive since four months after we got married. I know i’m not easy to live with, but i don’t physically hurt him in any way. Their is no cheating going on between us. My husband is like a teddy bear most of the time, but he exploads when arguments get heated. He hits me every week, and its just getting worse and worse. He always says he is sorry, and has agreed to take anger managment classes. We are going to start marriage counseling, but this has been going on for nearly two years. Should I call it quits or should i try and stay.

I really like this boy in one of my classes and i want to get to know him better but i am afraid of getting turned down and i dont even know how to ask. he is in only one of my classes and his two best friends are in that class too so i dont want to ask when he is with them. how do i get to just flirt and talk to him alone. what signs could tell me that he is interested in me? any tips on how to ask if he wants to hang? thnks

My husband and I are going to be in Rome for his 30th b’day. We stay in London and I want to get flowers and cake delivered to the hotel. I can’t find anything on the net. Can you help me in finding a website or give a good bakery’s name and suggest a florist for flowerdelivery. Thanks!
I also want to give him 30 gifts for his 30th and need lots of ideas. Any help?!!
CAn u also suggest a good romantic restaurant for dinner?