I think I have an online crush on this girl I’ve been chatting for a year or so. She’s 18, and I’m 20.
We’re only about 20 miles or so away and it sounds like a realistic enough of a distance if things do get serious.
Both of us are single, obviously, and she’s not into anybody at the moment, yes we do share quite a bit of our girl/boy businesses 
I haven’t given her any major sign of my interest yet, neither she has. And even if she has mutual crush on me, she’s extremely shy, so I think I’ll have to do most of the ‘work’ by myself.
What would be a good way to give her hints via online without sounding creepy?
Thanks in advance!
I Think I’m Having Online Crush On A Girl?
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December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
find a reason to go near where ever she lives, then message her saying something like “Hey, I’ll be in your area next _____(day of the week), we should meet up somewhere for ______(coffee, lunch, movie, etc.)”
also, offer to pay, and make sure it’s somewhere public, girls find it creepy when you want to meet somewhere non public.
after you meet, then go home, tell her something like “You never told me you were so pretty in person!”
put aside lame jokes when you meet up with her, they can change an opinion of someone very fast.
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Being honest never sounds creepy, how you go about this is entirely up to you, but it is easy as she is only 20 miles away. As its been a year since you made contact, arrange to meet her, do so gently if you must and if you don’t want to sound obvious, tell her that you hav business to attend to in her part of town and would it be possible to meet?
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
well good hints would be asking if she wanted to go out to eat, just as friends, and see if you like her in person first, then if you feel like there is a connection tell her you had a good time with her and say you want to do it again sometime. it doesnt sound to creppy and is nice and sweet.
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Well, you could try asking her out.
However, I’d be careful. People don’t always sound (or look) the same way in real life as they are online. The “girl” that you have a crush online with could be some 40 y/o cougar woman that likes preying on guys half her age.
I’m not trying to scare you, just telling you what could happen.
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Everytime you talk to her, be happy and tell her you’re happy whenever you talk to her. Be nicer if you can, and if she doesn’t do anything back, go alittle further . And she’ll hopefully get the message XD
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Talk to her and ask to hang out!
Show her how great of a guy you are and if she doesn’t already have a crush on you, i’m sure she will.
You can’t do EVERYTHING online
Good luck! Get out there!
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
hhhmm meeting people online is not advised but maybe your one of the lucky ones so if you really want to give her some hints just tell her how much you enjoy talking with her and that one day you’d like to meet up when your both ready.
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Just go for it
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
How about.. “You know, it’s been a year since we first chatted… How about we celebrate?” Then suggest something she’s into, that will actually bring you two face-to-face.
Good luck
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
“So what would you think about me and you getting together to do something?”
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
do you know she a girl she could be one of those internet stalker just be sure shes not a man
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
just be careful with online dating hun….. special if your going to meet tha person in person, make sure you go to a public outting and bring a friend ….. yeah be careful
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
its been a year, definately not creepy
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
IT’S A TRAP!
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
NOPE GO OUT AND LIVE OUT YOUR ONLINE REALSHIOTNSHIP!!
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
get out
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
just ask her on a date
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
Since you’ve been chatting for a year, I don’t think it will be creepy if you “make a move” online. Go for it!
December 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
If you have talked to her for a year or so and only live around 20 miles away I am surprised you have not asked to meet her.
You may want to ask her how she would feel about meeting you (in public place?, or in a public place with a girl friend of hers with her) and have a burger.
That way, if she goes with a female friend of hers she may not feel so shy about talking to you. See if she is cool with that.
Meet her as a “friend” now and let things progress slowly. It might be the best thing for both of you.
Whatever you decide, good luck!