I think I have an online crush on this girl I’ve been chatting for a year or so. She’s 18, and I’m 20.
We’re only about 20 miles or so away and it sounds like a realistic enough of a distance if things do get serious.
Both of us are single, obviously, and she’s not into anybody at the moment, yes we do share quite a bit of our girl/boy businesses 
I haven’t given her any major sign of my interest yet, neither she has. And even if she has mutual crush on me, she’s extremely shy, so I think I’ll have to do most of the ‘work’ by myself.
What would be a good way to give her hints via online without sounding creepy?
Thanks in advance!
I Think I’m Having Online Crush On A Girl?
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December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
There are currently no ways available to let your feelings know without sounding creepy.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
Hi Sam, you should try not to dive into anything just yet. Do you know what this girl looks like? Have you seen her in person? Remember that people can be ANYONE they want on the internet. But if you want to let her know how you feel, then take the smooth road and give off little hints, and compliments. You might even consider arranging a meeting to talk to each other in person.
Good luck!
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
Well just tell her i think im really starting to like u as a person i have always thought u were gorgeous but now i know u have a personality to match! ur perfect
but please if u havent met her in person tell her u wanna meet her in person and hangout and then u will know if u like her people change in person
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
You will sound creepy no matter what, but she might not take it as creepy. I would just ask if she wanted to meet somewhere for coffee and see what happens. Think of it this way… if she says no and finds you creepy, what have you lost, an internet friend? Thats it! Is she says okay you have a shat load to gain.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
Give her little hints like “your a really nice person” and “you know, i enjoy talking to you” so eventually she gets the feel of the whole thing and you start a give-and-take relationship. Then when it feels like your golden moment has come… tell her!
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
slowly start acting like you like her and maybe she will like it and do the same thing to you. idk where you live but here the guy just comes out and tells the girl what he feels about her and hopes for the best. you can do that too.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
Do whatever you can to make her “comfortable” via pixels.
Try wink smileys, be a little sweeter/sensitive when you chat.
Answer my question please?
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
if youve seen pics and stuff say youre really beautiful or when your talking to her be like ‘i like your personality’ or how she does something. im shy too and i have trouble telling guys that so she very well could like you. maybe you should meet up?
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
idk…have you ever like met this girl in person?
or is she just a girl you met online.?
you should tell her that you enjoy talking to her and that you like the way shes listend to your prblems and stuff.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
if she aint gave u pics, shes a 50 yr old virgin who lives with his mom
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
I wouldn’t do this. You never know who you are chatting with online.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
she’s a 45 year old man
December 19th, 2009 at 8:55 am
Just tell her how you feel…chances are if you have been talking to her for a year and she still talks to you then she likes you as well…you could always tell her how much you enjoy talking to her and how happy she makes you…I have had a similar experience except the guy and I are both extremely shy but i finally found the courage to tell him how i felt and it made him very happy to know that i had the same feelings for him. So just tell her what is in your heart and she will not think you sound creepy…Good Luck ^_^