Right here, honey. I have been married to my hubby for more than ten years. We have two cutie kids and are the BEST of friends. We are madly in love, prefer eachother’s company to pretty much anyone else. SURE we argue, it’s natural but in the end, it’s the best decision we ever made. We still have single and married friends, of course. We can’t alienate everyone.
It took some effort to get here, it didn’t just happen right away, because it always takes time to TRULY know a person. Even if you think you already know them.
PATIENCE, understanding, Forgiveness and setting mutual rules are good.
for example, me and hubby agreed that we would never have an affair, if we REALLY felt that way about another person, we would talk to the other person first. Show them the respect they deserve and decide what to do with the relationship from there. see?
Respect is a HUGE part of the deal too. you respect him, always treat him like the valued other half, in turn, he should do the same. It’s gonna take work, but if you want it, it wont be hard.
wait to have kids of you can, GET TO KNOW eachother, I cant stress that enough, plus it will give you two a chance to travel, run around naked, whatever, before all that responsibility comes on. And Give yourselves space. Dont try to be attached at the hip. It’s OK to want to take a bath by yourself. 
Good luck!
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Where In Houston Can I Find Free Pre Marriage Counseling?
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December 21st, 2009 at 8:59 am
right here it’s free don’t do it it’s wrong you don’t love the man let it go
December 21st, 2009 at 8:59 am
Yes, take advantage of the free Christian counseling.
But, here’s some advice! When you get married, you and your love should never hide your ” inner thoughts” from each other. Never guess what the other person is thinking, because 80% of the time, you may be wrong.
When you get into an arguement, always give each other alone time to think about the situation ,and then talk about it openly, hiding nothing. No matter how small the arguement is, always talk the problem and figure it out. You could even do this, by writing letters to each other.
Many couples go around with built up negetive thoughts about each other. After many arguements, they continue to hold the bitter thoughts for years and years, because they just don’t talk about it. This is why many people explode and get a divorce. They picture their marrage to be something like they see in hollywood movies, but the truth is, Hollywood has no idea how to make a realationship last. It takes hard work and unconditional love to make a marrage last.
December 21st, 2009 at 8:59 am
Churches. Depending on which one you go the marriage counseling free. It is at the churches in my area. Everyone of them is free.
December 21st, 2009 at 8:59 am
Shop around for the best ones in your area of houston. Some churches give you a simple personality test. About 20-30 question. It’s good to take for both of you. It also informs you why your mate likes things a certain way.
December 21st, 2009 at 8:59 am
i’LL GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE…..DONT DO IT!!! Most marriages just end in divorce anyway.Besides,if you are seeking pre marriage counseling then you must have some reservations about getting married.