My husband and i are going threw a bad spot in our marriage. we Don’t want to get a Divorice. His X has startd working where he teaches and he resently talked to her and has feelings for her nothin has happe and he told me and says he still oves me and wants us to stay together…. please tell me if you have went threw this and if you went to see someone and did i help?
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December 23rd, 2009 at 9:06 am
Not sure about marriage counselling but maybe look into some for yourself - I don’t mean that to sound as if I’m saying you need it..I just mean that perhaps talking to a trained person may explore some of the deeper reasons behind why you feel insecure.
I don’t know you/him but it doesn’t sound like he has much of an issue with the ex being around and it’d be awful if your insecurity ruined what sounds like a great marriage before all this happened.
Just a thought.
December 23rd, 2009 at 9:06 am
If he is being open this is a positive thing, at least you know what is going on. It is worth a try to hold it together.
Good luck