my boyfriend and I are in are early 20’s, we have been dating for almost 2 months … he jokes about marriage a lot and once while we were on the couch said “so when are we getting married” he laughed and i laughed and made a wierd face …then he said ” i only said that cause i was thinking about my cousins wedding and it reminded me” …” he also said ” i want a girl first and then we can have a boy”
is he joking or serious …this has happened about 2 other times
Boyfriend Jokes About Marriage …(advice)?
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January 2nd, 2010 at 8:55 am
He probably just feels connected to you, and wants to remain in the relationship. And when two people in love want to remain in a relationship forever/long time, they typically get married. It’s the social norm.
January 2nd, 2010 at 8:55 am
I think he is serious, 50% of what people say when they’re “joking” is infact not a joke at all. He probably just doesn’t want to freak you out, does it freak you out? =S
January 2nd, 2010 at 8:55 am
He is testing the waters. It is to soon though so just use the opportunity to tell him you’re not ready.