I am a high schooler, and this girl that I like is part of my school.
She and I are pretty good friends, and we like to hang out on occasions.
However, I feel more for her. We decided one day to go watch The Dark Knight, since she hadn’t seen it yet, and we decided to go to her house to watch it. So, I went to her house, met her parents, and we went down to the basement and watched it. We sat on seperate couches, probably not deliberately, since I sat down first and she sat down second. We did not have any physical contact whatsoever while watching the movie.
Later, she invites me to go see another movie, but instead we changed plans and went to Dave and Busters on New Years Eve. We played arcades there for a while, then went back to my house and she met my parents and family. We watched Horton Hears a Who, played board games, and other stuff. Then, we went and had dinner at her house with her family and we did other games and stuff there.
I invited her to Homecoming, and she said yes. There, we danced about 5-6 times, slow-dancing, and we would always look into each other’s eyes every so often. Eventually, we started singing the song to each other, but everyone else was too, so I don’t know if that was a sign or not.
She likes to make me laugh, I like to make her laugh, we enjoy each other’s company and we definitely hang out outside of school. As far as I know, she has not invited any other guys to hang out outside of school other than me. She still flirts with other guys or just acts nice to them, I don’t know which. But, it always seems like, despite all these things that we do together outside school, she seems to not be as interested in me during school or anything.
I told her my feelings, and she said she felt something there too, but that she wanted to take it very slow, and that we’re just good friends for now. But I really don’t know how to approach the situation or what to do about it. It seems like we like each other and that we’re even dating whenever we’re outside of school. We’ve done all the things that “exclusive couples” do. We’ve met each other’s parents, and we’ve been to each other’s houses, and I drive her to our many experiences together.
On top of this, with her acting as friends on occasion and as more on occasion, she’s always the one that invites me to all these get togethers outside of school, so my question is, would a girl really invite a boy to go somewhere outside of school multiple times if she didn’t really have any feelings for him? And what does this all mean?
The help would be greatly appreciated.
How Do I Tell What’s Going On Between This Girl And Myself?
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January 24th, 2010 at 8:54 am
Hmm well , maybe she just wants to take it slow like she said … If she admit that she has feelings for you I wouldn’t push it and ruin the whole thing … Just keep doing what your doing and I’m sure things will progress with time … Tho the fact that she doesn’t act the same as she does during school and after school does bother be a bit … Maybe she doesn’t feel comfortable showing others the way she acts with you after school … All of this is only my opinion !!! , If you want things to become obvious for both of you on how the relationship between you two is either a friendship or more maybe you should ask her on a date to the movies and make is clear to her that its a date ; tell her that you want to take her out (on a date
) pay for her, and if you feel like both of you are ready maybe try to hold her hand during the movie , you don’t have to kiss or anything to avoid rushing things like she mentioned but you’re still making it obvious that you like her and want things to evolve .
Hope I helped a lil bit !
Good luck!