my boyfriend and I are in are early 20’s, we have been dating for almost 2 months … he jokes about marriage a lot and once while we were on the couch said “so when are we getting married” he laughed and i laughed and made a wierd face …then he said ” i only said that cause i was thinking about my cousins wedding and it reminded me” …” he also said ” i want a girl first and then we can have a boy”
is he joking or serious …this has happened about 2 other times
Boyfriend Jokes About Marriage ……..(advice)?
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February 3rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
All of this is hypothetical. It’s fun for some people to talk about a wedding or future kids…and the thing is, it’s not concrete at the moment. Just because he talks about something doesn’t mean he wants it right now, but it doesn’t actually mean he’s joking either.
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
Dating for 2 months and his cousin is getting married and you are in your early 20’s? Yeah he is joking, lighten up.
BTW, when I was in my early 20’s I would jokingly tell girlfriends we were getting a divorce because they preferred grape jelly to strawberry jelly and other ridiculous things.
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
He’s not being serious.
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
2 months? OMG RUN
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
He’s joking
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
joking. just have fun for now.