Yes, I am that desperate. I have been married for seven years. Not once, has he remembered our anniversary, my birthday, or anything. we have three kids, whom I love dearly and their the reason I stay. The oldest is 6 and my youngest is 15 months with a seizure disorder. He uses tells me “I only married you because you were pregnant.” The other day, I found the following searches, our city dates, our city companions, wells, nevada prostitutes. He says he just goes to look at the girls, but, it makes me not trust him.I have tried to get him into counsling to no avail. Problem is, he doesn want the responsibilitys of being married, just all the control. He is also an over hte roader if that matters. I just need any advice. I get back in his face, he walks out, I shut up and hes in my face. whats going on here??
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February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
So scream already!
Then shut up.
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
I don’t know why you stay. You aren’t doing your kids any favors by staying in an abusive marriage.
Can’t say if he is cheating, but it sure has all the signs. His attitude toward you sounds like all the “justification” he needs.
In this case I wouldn’t even bother trying to get him to go to counseling with you. You can’t win with someone like him.
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
Are you retarded? This man has told you point blank he only married you because you were pregnant and NEVER once has remembered any significant date for you? AND there’s whore searches on your computer? If you can’t see what needs to be done, you are a damn fool! MOVE ON GIRL!
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
hes cheating, that much is obvious. Do your self a favor and dont have sex with him because he is probably doing stuff with those lot lizards. He is probably also being honest about the reason he married you. Divorce is an option.
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
they dont like it when we stand up to them so my only advice is to rethink how you are reacting to him-sometimes being nice is not that hard- men need to be needed and not just for their paycheck-say something nice to him
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck….
Then it’s a DUCK!
He’s cheating scum! Get rid of him . End of story
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
I wouldn’t believe him, find someone who will treat you better, its better then being in a unhappy relationship…
February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
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February 4th, 2010 at 8:57 am
You need to do like he say and stay out of his face, get a baby-sitter, get dressed I mean really dressed make-up and all and start going out, if you don’t do nothing but go around the corner and sit in the car for a few hours at a time. I bet once he think you got a life things will change! Drama around your kids is not a good thing! When you are alone thats your time to think. Life is to short not to be happy! Remember how this will affect your kids when they are old enough to understand!