Ok i just bought my girlfriend a $60,000 ring. I em going to purpose to her this friday at her favorite restaurant. There is only one problem she has lots of friends, and family. While i have only 3 friends. I em going to feel weird like a loser in front of everybody!.
What should i do?
We are both 21.
Help I Need Quick Advice It Involves Marriage?
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June 28th, 2009 at 9:03 am
HOLY SH** $60K. OK I am done. No, she should feel honored and you should not worry about how many people are there. Everyone should be there to support you both.
June 28th, 2009 at 9:03 am
There’s only like 4 people in my family and i know the feeling of being outnumbered, but seriously, you wont look stupid! Don’t stress about it, no one will be thinking about how many people are in your fan club, they’ll be too busy ooh-ing and ahh-ing over the huge rock you just bought your now-fiancee and gushing about wedding plans!
Good luck! =)
June 28th, 2009 at 9:03 am
It doesn’t matter how many friends each of you has. What matters is that you love her and want to spend rest of your life with her, right?
I was in the same boat as you when I got married. My husband has more friends than I do. No big deal. It won’t be a big deal to her and her friends/family either.
Good luck!
June 28th, 2009 at 9:03 am
Personally, I would rather be proposed to in private, with just the two of you. But anyway, just because you only have a few friends doesn’t make you a loser, so try not to let it bother you.
June 28th, 2009 at 9:03 am
what are you proposing in front of everyone - or do you mean at the wedding. if that’s the case - who cares, its not about friends - its about getting married.