I’m a romantic girl. To show a guy that I’m really interested in him on a 2nd date, what do I give him? Is flowers acceptable? Is a bottle of wine too boring? Obviously nothing sexy or full-on at this point… 
Any Ideas For A Romantic Gift For A Guy?
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June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
I am a guy and if a girl was really interrested me and wanted to give me something on a second date I wold like to get something like a hand writen note or letter telling me about your feelings. It might be too soon on only a second date. Have you known him for a while? Do you know what he likes? If his favorite food is Italian then a nice home cooked meal would be romantic. It would have to be something you put some effort into instead of just buying him something.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
sports gear football or world cup things, what sports does he like?
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
lol answer 1 is great
id say you’re safe with something like wine, chocolate, flowers- ehh, depends on the guy
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
no one should tell you how to put a smile on your man if that’s the case the one with the best idea will have him next girl you know how to get that man up you better brain storm be unique i am sure as long as it comes from you he will love it
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Really depends on the guy. Most guys I know would be uncomfortable with the idea of the girl buying him a gift that soon. I’d go with a card if it were me. Write something nice and thoughtful (but not too intense, it is only your second date) on the inside and give it to him.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
just one Red flower can say your internal feelings.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Gift on a 2nd date? Has he really earned anything yet?
cookies i guess
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
a bj.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
For a second date i would be careful what you buy him. I Would honestly wait a bit.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
chocate! its the international gift of romance!
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
I think that the guy should typically give gifts, but if you’ve got your heart set on it, here’s the advice I have given to others with success. Find out what he is interested in, what he likes to do. Then get something that is affiliated with that. He will appreciate that you listened to him and care about his hobbies.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
The 2nd date IS the gift.
Honestly, if you give him a gift on a second date, it may scare him away. Guys generally like girls who play hard to get. Not that you should be a B…. If you smile and act interested in what he says, that’s usually enough at the beginning. But you should go on your second date empty handed…it should be HIM that brings you flowers.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
My last girlfriend use to send me flowers all the time but i really didnt like it even though i acted as if i did. He has to be passionate about something movies, sports, art, etc… Guys are not really moved by flowers but get him an autographed Tom Brady football and you could move him to tears.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
if you give him a flower, give just one (rose or somthing) a bunch will make him think you’re in love with him already that might scare him or put him in an akward position since he might not feel the same way for you. maybe some sort of food that you guys could share. some strawberries with chocolate dip….
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
pick up ut titty and start suckng it!! lol
sorry i had to say it…
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Thompson Chain Reference Bible with his name in gold letters.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
flowers are the best.
wish any of us could express ourselfs any time any where to any one we love.
Good Luck
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
take him for dinner and pay for it, insist on it, if he’s any good he will accept graciously
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
you don’t have to give him anything……just show up on your date…..and you can’t give a guy a flower it’s too gay…..and you can only give a guy a wine if you’re gonna have a dinner at his house….
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
give him one yellow rose and one red rose. tell him the yellow is for friendship and the red is for a good start. what ever…make something up.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
A simple yet affecting gift for a guy especially if he also is a romantic would be some sort of card or note or something to that affect stating your feelings on the relationship you two have. It probably would be best written in some sort of free verse poetry or something to that effect. Good luck hope this helps.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
A gift on the second date might be a little forward. I guess a bottle of wine or something woule be OK. But I woudl wait to get more established with the relationship before doing anything more than that.
Maybe a little further down the road, he would appreciate something from a hobby of his or some tickets to a concert or sporting event that you guys could attend together.
I’m sure he would rather have a more “physical” gift on the second date.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
just you lovin him