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How can you be attractive easily just within 1 second? The answer is SMILE!

I would like to share with you one of my experience. When I was very young, I used to be very cool. I have red hair and ear ring. I never smile to people and I think women will like this kind of cool. But for years, I faced many rejections from woman. I cracked my head and really clueless that time.

Smile starts everything

I went to a seminar and I stop being cool. I’m so tired pretending to be cool. When I start to express myself and smile naturally everyday, someone I like told me she fall in love with me. And we started!

That’s it! Just smile from your heart and smile naturally.

Being Cool Doesn’t Make Your Face Look Better!

If you asked any women or men, they will tell you they are attracted by people who love to smile. Being cool is not a good way for men or women. Your looks does matter, but being cool will not make you look better. Your look can’t be change anymore. If you are sad about your look everyday, your face will look worse.

Attraction Doesn’t Really Requires Good Looking Face!

A normal face with a smile will attract many people to you. Believe or not, try it out! I’ve experience the power of smile. Have fun!

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A great tip for men and women to be attractive is being approachable:

Allow Others

Some men or women are not approachable. They can’t get easy and be friend with opposite sex. Being approachable is a critical tip if you would like to attractive and allow others to approach you.

Feel Ease

When you are being approachable, you allow others to be your friends including opposite sex. When you feel ease with them and they feel ease with you, they will be attracted. They will also start to see your uniqueness and beautiful personality.

Reduce Tension

Being approachable also reduce tension between a friendship of men and women. People don’t like tense friendship or relationship. If they can go along easy and fun with you, they might start to be interested in you and might take action to date you.

Disappear Fear

Another thing is human beings have fear. We have fear of rejections. If you are approachable, they will think that the risk of being rejected is low. This being allows them to approach you easily and happily. Only very few people dare to approach people who are unapproachable.

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How to be an attractive man or woman who attracts opposite sex? A good looking face and good body shape is important. But that’s actually not the key. Really! I’m not trying to let some people feel good. To be attractive, you need to:

Be confidence about your look

Have you seen people who don’t have a good looking face but still attract lots of men or women? There are no secret. They are just confidence about the way they look. People who have good looking are not attractive because the way they look. It’s the confidence that they have about their look that attracts people. It has very little to do with their confidence.

So, people who have normal looking face with confidence can be as attractive as people who have good looking face. It’s because confidence is one of the important source of being attractive not good looking face.

Don’t pretend to be who you are not

Still don’t have the confidence over the face? Let’s see this tip!

You might saw someone attractive and try to be like him or her. Don’t do that. When you copy others, you lose the first attraction source- confidence. You copy others only when you are not confidence about who you are. People know when you are pretending and when you are not because they do that all the time. Most people feel pretend is disgusting. When you stop pretending and fully self express who you are, you are very attractive. It’s because people are attracted by people who can fully self express themselves.

Being Natural With Anyone

There are still woman are shy to be close with man or there are still man afraid to be close with woman. Don’t need to be shy or afraid. Men or women who always can be with people naturally are people who are always the most attractive in a group. Woman and man who are shy or afraid to mix with opposite sex will be misunderstood as unfriendly or want to stay away from others.

People fear rejections too. So others will feel better to stay away from you than having a high risk being rejected.

Love yourself

People who love themselves are very attractive. Their love to their own lives, their own face and body, their own love to whatever they have is very attractive. People find these people like a magnet and want to share their love. Normal people love others to be loved. Attractive people love others because they love themselves so much that it overflows to others. They love because they have so much love and want to share it.

Always contribute something to others

No matter what group you are joining, if you are always trying to make a difference to that group you will be attractive. People love those who are always trying to make a difference to others.

But there’s a pitfall. Being helpful, taking care of people’s feeling or telling people that you’ll do anything is not making a difference. By being a person like that will make you insignificant. Making a difference is about making people around you feel happy or having a great time in life. Not being someone who carry other bags and follow behind of the group.

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