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How to be an attractive man or woman who attracts opposite sex? A good looking face and good body shape is important. But that’s actually not the key. Really! I’m not trying to let some people feel good. To be attractive, you need to:

Be confidence about your look

Have you seen people who don’t have a good looking face but still attract lots of men or women? There are no secret. They are just confidence about the way they look. People who have good looking are not attractive because the way they look. It’s the confidence that they have about their look that attracts people. It has very little to do with their confidence.

So, people who have normal looking face with confidence can be as attractive as people who have good looking face. It’s because confidence is one of the important source of being attractive not good looking face.

Don’t pretend to be who you are not

Still don’t have the confidence over the face? Let’s see this tip!

You might saw someone attractive and try to be like him or her. Don’t do that. When you copy others, you lose the first attraction source- confidence. You copy others only when you are not confidence about who you are. People know when you are pretending and when you are not because they do that all the time. Most people feel pretend is disgusting. When you stop pretending and fully self express who you are, you are very attractive. It’s because people are attracted by people who can fully self express themselves.

Being Natural With Anyone

There are still woman are shy to be close with man or there are still man afraid to be close with woman. Don’t need to be shy or afraid. Men or women who always can be with people naturally are people who are always the most attractive in a group. Woman and man who are shy or afraid to mix with opposite sex will be misunderstood as unfriendly or want to stay away from others.

People fear rejections too. So others will feel better to stay away from you than having a high risk being rejected. 

Love yourself

People who love themselves are very attractive. Their love to their own lives, their own face and body, their own love to whatever they have is very attractive. People find these people like a magnet and want to share their love. Normal people love others to be loved. Attractive people love others because they love themselves so much that it overflows to others. They love because they have so much love and want to share it.

Always contribute something to others

No matter what group you are joining, if you are always trying to make a difference to that group you will be attractive. People love those who are always trying to make a difference to others.

But there’s a pitfall. Being helpful, taking care of people’s feeling or telling people that you’ll do anything is not making a difference. By being a person like that will make you insignificant. Making a difference is about making people around you feel happy or having a great time in life. Not being someone who carry other bags and follow behind of the group.