How To Get Phone Numbers From People You Are Interested?
This is one of the first step when you are interested or fall in love with someone. How can you get his or her contact to keep in touch with them? How can you develop a relationship with them from strangers to friends and finally lovers. (I purposely missed out the marriage part.)
Be attractive first!
If you are trying hard or using tactics to get phone numbers, it will not work! You can get phone numbers easily if you create attractiveness. Did you notice people who are very attractive don’t need to learn how to get people’s phone number.
Hold on! I don’t mean you can’t be attractive. You are just not attractive up until now. Just up until now. You can start to be attractive right now. Go to this page. I’ll show you the top 5 tips you can easily be attractive. When you are attractive, people feel happier than you to give you their contacts.
Create comfort for him or her.
When they are attracted towards you, they will still feel unsafe. Maybe according to their past experience, strangers who approached them try to take advantage from them or already took advantage from them.
So, you need to create comfortable atmosphere for them. When they feel comfortable and they are attracted by you, they will want to go deeper or interested to continue the relationship. Then you are ready for the next step.
Ask the right question.
The above 2 tips haven’t give you any action yet. I will put the step by step action in the summary below. When you are attractive and create comfort for them to be whoever they want, they might be waiting for you to ask for their numbers. So, this is what you need to do:
Ask them their numbers! But you need to be careful because they might be asked for numbers many times from sales person or other men or women. They have past experience about the word “phone number” (As a man, I also have some weird feeling.). So use this question “I would like you to meet you at …(other places) next time. How can I contact you?”
Summary
If she gives you an e-mail, look at the front 2 steps which you are not creating enough comfort to let them feel safe to give you. Or you are just not attractive enough for them to allow you to call them.
So, here’s the step by step:
- Read the attractive tips.
- Practice being attractive anywhere.
- When you meet him or her, observe where he or she needs help.
- Help he or her and start creating comfort.
- Ask her the right question for contact.
With these steps you can get her phone number and she will also look forward to date with you.
