The Most Beautiful Love!
What is the most beautiful love? This is not about solving problems you have in your love relationship. It’s something you can try on for:
Create your own beautiful love story and memories. You don’t follow love stories on movies or novels anymore. You create your own love story that inspires and touches people’s life.
Can you achieve that? Yes. Have A Look!
Love by giving. If we love by giving our love to others, our love are beautiful.
Most people love people because they want love from others. That’s also love. But when you do that, you’ll get upset if they don’t love you back. You start to hurt and hate people who you love. You hurt yourself and they get hurt too.
If you love to get people’s, they loving you will create unhappiness too. You will want more love and expect them to give you more. When it reaches a level they can’t afford to give, you’ll hurt them and feel sad too. You might start saying to yourself “See! He/She don’t love me” or tell them on their face “You don’t love me!” He/She might be thinking “I love you so much and you take it for granted! I don’t think you love me too!” Love might disappear at that moment and both my start to revenge by dating other people or hurting each others’ feeling.
If you love by just giving your love to others or to your life partner, you don’t want anything from them. You will just love them everyday. They feel happy and feel loved every time they be with you. You are happy because you don’t want anything from them. And when you love without asking for love, you allow them to love you too. Both of you will feel loved, happy and enjoying the relationship, marriage, friendship or partnership.
Love without conditions. When you love without reasons and condition, you have the power to love.
When you love your partner or boyfriend/ girlfriend without any reason, you can love them whoever they are and whoever they are not. This love give you happiness and power to love.
When we love with reasons and conditions, we will not love them if they did something we don’t like. When they didn’t meet our standard of “Mr. Right”/”Ms. Right” or they treat us bad, we start not to love them? This is where all the problems and issues from the relationships pops up. This is where love became so tired.
All problems related with “No sparkles”, “No feeling”, “Pretend to love”, “Suspect is he/she have another affair” and others are gone. When he/she didn’t meet those conditions , do you think you still have love or upset and anger? If he/she don’t meet those conditions and reasons of love, do you still love him/her naturally or you have to pretend?
So, love without condition allow you to love happily and powerfully. Even he/she farts often and open a wide mouth during laughing, accept who they are. You will notice your love last and became easy.
Love start from yourself.
This is the most important part. You can do the love by giving and without conditions only when you start loving yourself. When you hate yourself such as “Why I’m so stupid making these mistakes?”, “Why am I not handsome or pretty as XXX?”, “I hate myself being so lazy!” and etc.
If you are doing that, you don’t love yourself. It’ll be very hard to love by giving and without conditions. It’ll be hard to love with power and happiness. So, start love yourself fully. Your face and body can change only you start to love yourself. Your character can change only you start to love who you are.
Someone describe love like this:
You are like a cup, you fill this cup with your love. When this cup(you) is full of love, it will flow out and flood everywhere around with love.
When you love yourself very much, people around you will be soaked in love. Your love just expand to everyone and you’ll be loved by people around you. And then, you can choose who you want to create a beautiful relationship.
Isn’t that the most beautiful love in the world?
