What Can You Talk When You Are Dating?
When you are on a date, what can you talk about to improve the relationships? What you need to avoid that will cause an impact on your relationship? What conversation he or she will enjoy?
Man And Woman Are Different
In the book “Man are from Mars, Woman are from Venus” shows the huge difference between conversations that they are interested in. Men don’t really like conversations. Men are more into actions. If you want to have great conversation with men, just talk about action he took and action he will take in the future. Compliment on what he just share as something great! You can add in suggestion for action too. That will excites them.
Women talk about anything. Men usually will give them solutions to problems when a woman speaks. Men are very into actions. So when a woman share or talk, men should really listen to them and not just sit there and be unconscious. Women will talk about lots of things and hardly stop if you are a good listener. Just listen and compliment what they share. Show that you really listen!
Topics to avoid
Every person have their own bad past experience. When you are curious about some of their past and they say no, it means no. Stop there and they really mean it. Don’t talk about sex too. When woman talk about sex, she is just putting herself into a danger position. Man will perceived that she would like to have sex. And when he demand from you and you are not willing to do that, man will be upset. When man mention about sex with woman, woman will turn on their protection shield too.
Topics You Can Go Around- “FORM”
Family: You can talk about their family. How are they and what are they doing…
Occupation: You can talk about their jobs, the interesting story happen in the office…
Recreation: You can talk about their hobbies or what they are interested…
Memories: You can talk about great and unforgettable memories…
Listen And Compliment To What They Say
Every time he or she start to talk, listen to them. Don’t think what they are trying to say and don’t sit there being unconscious. Listen and look for chance to compliment for what they did or how grateful you are for them to share that with you.
